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The numpties are out in full force here, folks.

The governor of our state actually did the sensible thing that he should have “bit the bullet on” weeks ago and issued an executive order mandating that all schools in the state stay closed for the rest of the academic year. Naturally, we have no shortage of numpties on his social networking pages commenting with varying levels of distaste on this… in the midst of a global pandemic with a 4.1% mortality rate taking into consideration all fifty states. I mean, comparatively speaking, there aren’t this many actual numpties (or at least I would hope not), even though they seem like they are a lot louder than they actually are concentrating themselves on things like his Facebook page, shrieking like nearly actual banshees. Some of them are going so far as to deny that we are in the midst of an actual global pandemic, comparing this to the common cold or the flu, screaming about how we need to “bring the economy back to life” (with what? actual skeletons? okay, those of us who can work can go back to work, at the cost of human lives, and then we’ll all be dead, because of the economy, when this thing absolutely ravages us, all because you would not listen to actual scientists), insisting that “only the sick need to stay at home, and us healthy folks can go out and go back to work”… okay, forget how you healthier folks, you folks who can stay asymptomatic for up to fourteen days can literally bring it to our doorsteps. Can my estate sue you if you kill me? I think I’d like it to… if you kill me.

This has also brought the anti-vaxers out in full force whenever a potential, possible vaccine for the coronavirus is brought up. At one point I actually responded with, “my family will keep our vaccines, yours can keep natural family planning,” to a Catholic who invoked “the Nuremberg clause” in an actual conversation. This same Catholic also claimed to have taken many science courses along with his wife, tried to flaunt degrees, and was also apparently anti-vax. This did not surprise me given that they were Catholic.

(Strange fact: Bub’s paternal grandmother tried to “justify” me getting an IUD after his birth as “it’s not a sin because she’s not Catholic” after, for some strange reason, Bub’s father saw fit to tell her that I had gotten one. After she had a tantrum over it, which he… saw fit to tell me about. I was far more annoyed that he saw fit to have this conversation with his mother, and to tell his mother something that never should have been brought up in conversation with her. But it never wound up mattering, because I never became Catholic, no one in my family unit never became Catholic [and will never become Catholic insofar as it requires my consent], and Catholic doctrine has never mattered to me and will never matter to me for as long as I live.)

Happy… no Easter Vigil, or something, y’all.

Well, it’s been a decade since I rejected Catholicism. I still feel content that I did so, knowing that I made the right choice since I disagreed with all of its doctrine… and I mean all of its doctrine. You have to agree with all of it, or at least agree to submit to all of it, in order to “become” Catholic as an adult convert, so me “going through the motions” to shut someone up would have culminated in me lying to people at various stages in the process (RCIA, as previously mentioned) and I didn’t want to waste my time or anyone else’s time dragging that whole process out, especially because Catholicism artificially inflates their numbers by “not allowing you to quit” once you are on their rolls. And furthermore, I didn’t even want to crack the door open of “well, Bub needs to be baptized because that’s what our family does! and you’re the custodial parent, so we need to get your consent for it some way! and the easiest way to do that is just to shotgun convert you!”.

Because of the coronavirus pandemic, anyone who is getting… certain public benefits that may come due for a renewal automatically has those benefits renewed for the length of time that they had normally been getting them, so my medical insurance through the state was renewed for another calendar year. I am glad that I don’t have to worry about that. I mean, until they find some excuse to take it away from me. Well, that.

My state governor apparently wants to sign an executive order next week “helping businesses start to get back to work here soon”. In a global pandemic. Okay. Once you start to talk more about that, I’ll see what you “have in mind”, and then I guess I’ll see how hard I have to go in on you like Barret Wallace from Final Fantasy VII on your social media because we still have someone in power who does not understand science.

One thing that I actually did not realize…

I found this out through talking about the Catholic religion with some of my friends, but apparently you are supposed to be interviewed prior to enrolling in RCIA classes. Bub’s paternal grandmother knew about this, and she was able to hide the fact that this was an interview from me by interrupting the interviewer after nearly every single question that he asked me so that I would not catch on as to what “classes” I would actually be attending, let alone had signed up for (since, prior to the “interview”, these things being put in quotations because I would never have filled out the forms in the first place if I had actually been given a chance to read the forms or had been told what the purpose of the classes actually were, let alone even been given the name of the classes so that I could read about them at any point — remember, Bub’s father and his grandmother were adamant in making sure that the name of these classes were not even given to me for this reason). They also had me put down on these forms that I “was raised” in the Mormon faith, even though this was a blatant lie. Not only was I not raised in any faith at all, seeing as how my parents respected my lack of belief in anything, but Bub’s father was also pretty adamant about “sticking with this story”, even though he himself knew that I didn’t believe in the existence of anything supernatural and did not want this to come out at any point. I’m assuming that he wanted me to “fake it until I made it” and lie my way through these classes so that he did not get in trouble for knowing that I did not believe in anything, or he thought that somehow these classes would actually succeed in making me believe (or want to believe) in the existence of the supernatural and somehow “reason” that the Catholic church was right all along. Fat chance on that given how his mother would not stop running her mouth about how wrong all of my relatives were, even though I wasn’t particularly close to that many of them, having met very few of them in person.

But this should speak to how nefarious my ex and his mother were, that they would go to the levels that they did to hide the fact that I was “being interviewed” (because apparently they interview you before the classes even start to get an idea “where you’re coming in from”), and she had apparently told a lot of people that she went to church with that I was “excited about converting” and that I “wanted to convert”. Yeah, no.

What the Catholic church really needs to knock off.

Complaints of mine that I’ve managed to come up with during Quarantine and Chill:
· actually “deciding” which religion’s baptisms are valid and which are not
(they seem to have this peculiar thing against Mormon baptisms… like, who died and made you arbiter?)
· deciding whose marriages are “valid”, “that you can only have one”, and their stupid annulments
(how about you stay out of the marriages, or private lives, of people who are not Catholics, for one thing?)
· expecting that non-Catholics, especially non-Christians, adhere to these “marriage rules” to make it valid
(for instance, not going into a marriage “completely open to life” or placing limits… makes it invalid)
· making you go through nearly an entire school year’s worth of preparation if you “really want to get baptized” or come into the church as an adult (or anyone older than the age of… like, seven), which I’ve read the curriculum of and… the personal accounts of from a lot of people who have personally gone through this to completion, found that a lot of the actual classes are superfluous at best and that there could really be improvement for a lot of this, and that there is almost no flexibility in any of it adjusting for life circumstances
· that individuals with Celiac disease or liver problems get the short end of the stick
(the cracker has to have wheat, and the “blood of Christ” has to have alcohol in it, folks, or it’s “not valid”)
· that even in a mixed marriage, the kids have to be baptized Catholic, because Catholicism “has to win out”
(hey, remember how well that went in 2010 when Bub was never baptized Catholic? try that shit again, y’all)

This is just my short list of things that really bother me about the Catholic church, going along with the major problems that I have with it that make me all the more glad that I chose to… out myself in the manner that I did, resulting in me being dropped from the RCIA class roster at the end of the very first class that I took, the first, the last, and the only one. To this day, I still have absolutely no regrets about any of that, and to this day, I still do not want to convert to Catholicism, nor do I want either one of my children to have anything to do with the church such that I will not consent for them to have any involvement with it where it is needed.

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