Posts Tagged ‘parenting’

I never actually expected that this would happen.

Bub headbutted me in the side of the face hard enough to send me to the emergency room having to get checked out for a concussion and a chipped tooth that I’m going to have to have dentistry look at. I know that it was an accident, something that he did not mean to do, and something that he could not and can not control — it was part of a meltdown, and he’s autistic. So no, I don’t blame him at all for what happened. Luckily I did not actually get a concussion (although I did get a bad migraine that began to come on hours after the incident), but I’m going to have to get the tooth that he chipped like he did crowned, I do know that much. I found out that I qualified for CareCredit after applying for it on my phone while I was waiting in the emergency room, and it must have spoken to the severity of my injuries that I did not wait that long to be called back. I mean, I waited, don’t get me wrong… but I wasn’t there all night long like I could have been!

So this month is going to be… pretty fun, and I’m going to be really busy with everything that’s scheduled.

Happy twelfth birthday to you, Bub!

I try not to use the same clip art on here that I’ve already used, or try not to use it too frequently, but here we are. At 2:53AM in the morning, Bub turned twelve years old, so I had to mention something about it in this!

I love when friends of mine actually read my blog.

This is how Bub sleeps most nights. He’s got the pillow bunched up under his head because.

One of my friends admitted to reading my blog for reasons that probably have to do with the fact that it’s listed in my Discord profile (he’s a developer and moderator for the re-AOL project, and I write about more than just re-AOL in my blog, so the math isn’t incredibly difficult to do here). I thought I would post this in response since it’s a cute picture of my child doing the sleep and, well… being himself. Being my clone here.

If it’s not one thing it’s another, but we make do.

Bub’s Steam Deck came in the mail yesterday!

I’m in the process of setting that up for him. I need to get a microSD card for it so that he has access to all of his games, and I’m in the process of having one shipped to my house now. It’ll get here when it gets here, and then I can finish putting this thing together and give it to him for his birthday. The theme of this year’s birthday is (probably what it has always been, but with a bit more oomph this time) games, because Bub loves games. That’s one of the ways that we’ve bonded over the years, and I see absolutely no harm in it.

I also got my formal assessment results in the mail, and I am autistic! Not that I wasn’t told that I was after I completed testing, and I don’t see it as a disability (I do have mild adaptive deficits, but a lot of those come from anxiety, and I have generalized anxiety disorder largely caused and exacerbated by… well, my mother, who I’ve written about, and who I’ll probably continue to touch on in subsequent posts to flesh this out a bit further). I have the results kept in the bottom dresser of my drawer where I tend to keep important things that I’m not going to need to grab on a regular basis, things that I’m probably not going to need to grab at a moment’s notice for some reason, so it is what it is. I mean, I already knew that I was autistic, so… yeah…

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