My oldest son’s father has been dead for a year as of November 20th.

That’s it. That’s the whole post. That’s everything that I wanted to come here and say today.

This should never have happened. For those of you who don’t already know this, he was killed by a drunk and high driver while he was on his way home from work. we are fortunate in the aspect that he did not have time to suffer. He was transported directly to the morgue awaiting an autopsy while news agencies ran with the bullshit idea that “this could have been purposeful” (we already know from the autopsy that had to be performed that it was not). Family began discovering this at varying times since he had been out of touch with all of them owing to the fact that they cut him out of their lives for completely justifiable reasons, to include myself. At any rate, I continue to work with MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving), and they are willing to show up in court and advocate for me and our son so that I do not have to keep commuting out of state to do this. I am waiting to hear back on the status of the case from my advocate.

Since my oldest son’s father was always into new age stuff, always having been, I was gifted this after we found out he had passed. And as luck would have it, the pendant straight up fell off of the necklace one morning and still to this day has not been found. Until, that is, someone who’s become a fan of my livestreams brought me a new necklace! This makes me so happy to have a part of my son’s father again.

I made another call to the non-emergency line of the police department of the area that he is quite likely in as they have been handling my concerns since the inception of his stalking. This resulted in them… becoming a lot more interested in having a face-to-face conversation with him, prompting him to hide in attempts to delay what might otherwise be the inevitable if they are skilled enough at their jobs. It also kept him from continuing to harass and threaten me, so I honestly think I am going to call them every single time this man makes unwanted contact with me (which will be any of the contact that he attempts to make from this point forward, as he is on like Twitter account number five making burner accounts to continue to harass, stalk, and threaten me on and with because I continue to block him). They are certainly amenable to me reaching out to them like this at every single continued unwanted contact. His lies to law enforcement in three states now coupled with the fact that we now have it on good authority that he tried to fed a friend of mine who is also a streamer prompted me to file for a restraining order against him covering myself and also file on behalf of both of my children, which the state should begin to work on at absolutely no cost to me in the coming days, weeks, and months. And my local law enforcement will continue to surveil the area of town that I live in more than they have, or tend to have, in the event that he is actually stupid enough to attempt to leave his state with his gun with mine as the final destination. I am thankful for their continued protection.

If my stalker seemed like the kind of person who were capable of holding down any sort of job that wasn’t making money breaking the law then gloating about it on Discord, I’d worry that these restraining orders might preclude gainful employment in his case, but that isn’t something that I have to worry about either.

I have most of his name, know where he is located and what police department to contact if he continues to stalk and threaten me. The only thing he has managed to accomplish over the months in any of this is making it to where absolutely no one will hire him or let him work for them again. He did all of this to himself.