the blog of a disabled mother who likes to game, and "get in the pit"
My sister-in-law’s ex-boyfriend of not even one day is actively hitting on me.
This is happening on Facebook.
This has become, and been, the creepiest thing I have been a part of for an extremely long time.
I am trying really hard not to repeat songs at this point, though I know that the time and day is inevitable.
The Texas child support office has withheld a payment made for my son since 11/3.
I am considering escalating this via police report and pressing charges for fraud and theft.
A child support payment was made for my fifteen-year-old, sent to the state on the third of the month.
I still have not recieved it and Monday will mark a full week that the payment has been accepted in their systems but not disbursed to me, and I can take screenshots of the child support portal proving all of this.
Meanwhile, I continue to attempt to make contact with my youngest son’s father’s church about the manner of his conception because him being allowed to continue to volunteer as the Head Usher raises legitimate safety concerns given that “our” son resulted from him forcing himself upon me in his city park (on October 3rd, 2009… when I tried to fight back against him) and this raises legitimate safety concerns because he is clearly unrepentant and I refuse to be the reason he forces himself onto someone else. I continue to be ignored and am in fear that he will do to someone else what he did to me and that she may not be brave enough to speak out about it like I’ve become. I was legitimately forged in the fire of my husband’s death.
A voluntary child support payment was made for my youngest son on the third of November.
Normally payments post after the end of business the day of My Payments and are disbursed to the family the next day or the next business day, meaning a turnaround of between one to three days if the payment is paid on a Friday. I’ve always been fine with how the Texas child support office has done this so far, even though I don’t like continuing to recieve “voluntary” payments from the mother of the man who raped me (have I covered that in here? maybe I should, if I haven’t) now that she knows her son has raped me, has responded to that by blocking me on Facebook after following me in a creepy and parasocial way, wanting me to “get over” what happened to her and marry her son — my rapist — “now that my husband is dead”, and… continuing to make the payments I honestly did not expect her to continue to make. But I am still waiting for the payment made on the third of the month to be disbursed to me with us now being on the seventh of the month, and the “chief ombudsman”‘s half-assed e-mails “apologizing” for the delay in this are doing absolutely nothing productive. Her name is Stephanie Neely and I’ve happily pointed her out in here before for being the most incompetent at her job, and I’ll keep pointing her out in here for as long as it takes.
I’ve caused eight investigations into their office by the National Child Support Agency. I’m happy to continue.