
I have found rice water conditioner bars and will be selecting one for purchase in the coming few days.
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I have found rice water conditioner bars and will be selecting one for purchase in the coming few days.
I now have my very own bonnet and am eagerly awaiting my rice water shampoo to come in the mail!
When that happens I’ll have gotten paid for the next month so I’ll be purchasing some curly girl routine stuff for my hair, like (other) shampoo and conditioner specifically for wavy hair, some leave-in conditioner, hair gel, and a hair mask if necessary. I know for a fact that I want the shampoo, conditioner, and gel. The rest will probably come with whatever package I get because I am for the most part going to leave this to the experts sparing some advice that friends with similar if not identical hair types have given me over the course of the last few weeks. I may or may not take pictures when I’ve gotten every — oh, of course I will.

Growing up I was never taught how to take care of wavy or curly hair other than the aggressive brushing my mom spent my entire childhood doing because she had 1A hair and was jealous my hair is very much 2B/2C. I was taught nothing of curly hair care (the colloquial “curly girl routine”, even for those with a lot of wavy hair) because my mother was a neglectful drug addict whom I am very glad remains gone. That said, I am going to have one of these in my hands very soon and am also anxiously awaiting rice water shampoo and conditioner to give a try. I am also going to be getting various gels and holds customized for my hair as well.

My hair is a really solid 2B/2C and I want to emphasize my curls more over the course of this year!

I just happened to get this amazing picture as we were coming home from speech therapy one morning.
In the interim I’ve done a reset shampoo on my hair and am now only washing it with sulfate-free bars, as am I co-washing (“washing with conditioner”) more frequently to see how all of this goes. My mother was a 1A who constantly deluded herself that the one single wave she could sometimes artificially force into her hair “meant that she had wavy hair”, and she took the fact that I had naturally wavy and somewhat, borderline curly hair out on me whenever she had the chance… which equated to her taking it out on me almost all the time given that my father worked in the military, then worked as a truck driver, giving her all the time in the world to do this to me. As it’s been with absolutely everything else owing to her abuse and severe neglect of me, I’ve had to learn how to care for wavy and curly hair myself, just like I’ve had to learn how to do everything else that she should have been the one teaching me how to do… but I’m sure every single reader here can guess how that went. At least I can do livestreams on Twitch about it. There’s that.