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I just hate it when things like this… well, happen.

After accidentally biting my lip during a meal (since when does that not happen with me?), of all the times for it to do so the wound literally cracked and became infected with what I can only imagine is otherwise ubiquitous bacteria in my mouth. Two of three doctor’s visits out of the way getting and keeping my care team involved with this, I’ve been put on antibiotics that are surprisingly not making me as nauseated as I thought they would, and I’ve been issued some pain medication to take to ride out the worst part of this healing. Although the infection certainly seems to be responding to the antibiotics, the pain is absolutely something else… even breakthrough pain, like when I rouse from a nap or sleep. Ihe liquid lidocaine that I’m supposed to swish in my mouth as needed has been an absolute godsend. I didn’t expect it to work so well.

This was when the pandemic had just started, y’all.

It gave us something to do, and asking Monster to socially distance himself from other people after explaining as much of that as I could worked better than I had expected. As for Bub, who is nowhere near ready, I let him play on the park behind the benches we sit on that are in front of the water. That makes it so much easier to watch both of them! (And of course, as the pandemic began to rage more, we scaled down.)

That happened a lot faster than I thought it would.

Normally, requests to renew SNAP or Medicaid benefits take months in this state… and by months, what I really mean to say is that I have to file complaint after complaint with the state to get them to look at my renewal applications (or do you just say renewals? I’m not quite sure). But for the first time in what might actually be a really long time, putting in a renewal request for my medical insurance culminated in the state approving that within a week. That’s never happened before, although they used to be faster in general.

Now all I have to do is make sure that Bub’s child support case remains closed since both child support cases had good cause waivers on them exempting them from enforcement until Monster’s father died, rendering that moot in his case. The state has sneakily tried to open one or both of the cases up for enforcement in the past (doesn’t Stephanie Neely have enough to do with her time?), although now Monster’s case can’t be opened because state agencies have been given proof of his father’s death. They literally physically can not open that case up ever again for any reason. His father is dead. That’s permanent.

So far, Bub’s child support case remains closed. I’m going to continue to log into it to ensure it stays closed.

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