My son’s paternal grandmother has blocked me on Facebook after trying to follow me there for a week.

My guess is that she speculated she could make me marry her son (“my child’s father”) when she found out that my oldest son’s father — my late husband — had passed away, and finding out… what her son did to me did not work out too well for her. I have no regrets about drawing the hard boundary that there will never be direct contact between me and my rapist, or direct contact between my rapist and the son he produced through rape. This is absolutely non-negotiable and I will never revisit this, let alone change my mind on any of the matters surrounding this. I suggest that if she genuinely has a difficult time processing what her son did to me and what this means from a legal standpoint that she seek counseling, because not only is she not my problem, but she raised her son to be this way. I do not consider her, or them, family to any of us at all…