I’ve been really busy sorting out things that my oldest son is going to need sorted out by adulthood, so…
November 2024 archive
I love having to set all of this stuff up, and by that…
…what I really mean to say is that I don’t. I wouldn’t deal with these programs if we didn’t have to.
I thought I had most of this set up so that my oldest son could effortlessly bridge onto the survivor’s benefits that he will continue to need as an adult, but that was actually sort of contingent upon Social Security (where he gets the survivor’s benefits he’s been owed since his father passed away) and Supplemental Security Income (SSI) communicating with each other’s offices, and it’s already become clear that this is not happening. With any luck, calling the local Social Security office tomorrow should iron out everything that I need to have ironed out for him so that those benefits continue to be paid out when and where they’re supposed to be paid out, but I wouldn’t be surprised if this is yet something else that I have to chase down making the Social Security Administration do their actual jobs. And to think I already thought I’d ironed all of that out, because evidently I haven’t. I’ll be giving their office a call tomorrow morning, hoping that I’m able to get through to someone live within the first fifteen or twenty minutes of that phone call, making sure that they do indeed have everything notated that they need to have notated for benefits to seamlessly continue, and then sit on my ass for the next week or so since this is Thanksgiving holiday. Let’s see how it goes…
Another great picture that I got of Bub!
Bub has been loving this year’s winter jacket and I have been loving taking pictures of it since he got it.
The kids got their jackets out for the year!
This is one of my favorite pictures of my youngest son wearing his newest winter jacket. You love to see it!
This needs a post all by itself, so I’ll make one.
My oldest son’s father has been dead for a year as of November 20th.
That’s it. That’s the whole post. That’s everything that I wanted to come here and say today.
This should never have happened. For those of you who don’t already know this, he was killed by a drunk and high driver while he was on his way home from work. we are fortunate in the aspect that he did not have time to suffer. He was transported directly to the morgue awaiting an autopsy while news agencies ran with the bullshit idea that “this could have been purposeful” (we already know from the autopsy that had to be performed that it was not). Family began discovering this at varying times since he had been out of touch with all of them owing to the fact that they cut him out of their lives for completely justifiable reasons, to include myself. At any rate, I continue to work with MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving), and they are willing to show up in court and advocate for me and our son so that I do not have to keep commuting out of state to do this. I am waiting to hear back on the status of the case from my advocate.